I'm not sure anybody has sat as an 8 year old and said they want to be a therapist. I didn't. If somebody has, please let me know... for me it's something you grow into as you realise how difficult life can be. It happened to me after I was broken.
I was aspirational and wanted to be a lawyer or the like. I had something approaching a "normal" career for a few years but was bugged by this sense that something wasn't quite right. So I ended up needing to see a therapist, several actually, and used the space to really explore what it was like being me and to try and make sense of how I viewed the world.
I'm not fixed. I'm not sure it's possible to be fixed.
I'm very experienced working with depression, anxiety and suicidal feelings. I've worked with addicts, people who suffer from eating disorders. I've worked with people who just don't feel quite right, or feel their relationships aren't working as well as they could be. I try and bring myself into the room - I view our time together as a relationship, of which I'm part.
I have training in integrative psychotherapy, and in existential psychotherapy, but try and approach every relationship as a unique entity and don't really subscribe to a particular approach religiously. I like being creative and try and draw from different areas like art, music and non-psychotherapy views.
I'm in my early thirties, live in South London with my girlfriend and have a collection of books as it's not hording if it's books.
For a flavour of me, I wrote something for an American colleague about suicide, have appeared on a BBC3 documentary and I've written articles and given presentations for the Society of Existential Analysis.
I can help you with most issues such as:
-processing abuse and trauma
-victims of crime
-feelings of isolation and loneliness
-existential issues over career and the biggest question of all, what’s the point?
t: +44 (0)7840 180 094
BA(Hons) (Dunlem) Sport (2009)
MSc (Lond.) Project and Enterprise Management (2010)
Regent’s University London – Foundation Certificate in Psychotherapy and Counselling (2014)
Regent’s University London - MA Counselling and Psychotherapy (2017)
Regent’s University London - Advanced Diploma in Existential Psychotherapy (2018)
Level 1 Guided Imagery and Music
Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST)
Gestalt Sand Tray course
Positive Outcomes for Dissociative Survivors: Trauma, Dissociation & Recovery
UKCC Rugby Football Union Level 2 Coaching
UKCC Rugby Football Union Level 1 Coaching
- Highbury & Islington
- Covent Garden
British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)
United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP)
Society for Existential Analysis (SEA)
Association for Coaching (AoC)
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